I Thought I Had to Earn Love—Until I Realised the Pattern Was Mine to Break
For years, I believed love had to be earned—through perfection, performance, and emotional labour. I didn’t realise that belief followed me into adulthood, into my relationships, and even into my business. I undercharged. I overgave. I stayed silent when I needed connection. I doubted my worth. This post is for anyone who’s still trying to prove they’re ‘good enough’ to be chosen—by clients, by partners, by family. The truth? You already are. And breaking the pattern doesn’t just free you emotionally—it transforms the way you show up in your brand, your voice, and your entire life.